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Selfish

Podcast 1 · Introduction

Selfish /ˈsɛlfɪʃ/ · adjective

A short documentary narration — meaning, origin, and how the word is used.

In this course, selfish means concerned only with one's own interests, regardless of others. The related entry for selfless gives a related word, and the Cambridge definition of selfish and the Merriam-Webster entry for selfish give the main sense. For more background, see the encyclopaedia article on selfish.

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Podcast 2 · Daily Use

In Conversation

Two British speakers using "selfish" naturally in everyday talk.

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Podcast 3 · Prompt Engineering

Prompting with "selfish"

An instructor and developer explore real, copy-ready AI prompts built around the word.

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Transcript: “Selfish” vocabulary micro-course

Read along with the three podcasts, or open the full dictionary entry for Selfish for the definition, Arabic meaning, synonyms and example sentences.

Podcast 1 — Introduction & meaning

Narrator: Today's word is "Selfish" — adjective, pronounced /ˈsɛlfɪʃ/, with the stress on "sel".

Narrator: Selfish means concerned only with one's own interests or pleasure, regardless of others.

Narrator: In plain English, a selfish person only thinks about themselves — like someone who eats the last slice of cake without asking.

Narrator: It comes from the word self, meaning oneself, plus the suffix ish, meaning having the quality of.

Narrator: "A selfish act" describes an action done only for one's own benefit.

Narrator: It differs from self-centred because selfish implies acting on self-interest, whereas self-centred is about perspective.

Narrator: "Selfish with money" is a sense meaning unwilling to share or spend.

Narrator: Psychology, relationships, ethics and everyday speech all rely on the word selfish.

Narrator: So remember: selfish means only thinking of yourself, from self and ish.

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Podcast 2 — In conversation

Speaker A: What does selfish mean?

Speaker B: Only thinking of yourself! SELFISH comes from self plus ish, so it means concerned only with your own interests, regardless of others.

Speaker A: So a selfish child won't share?

Speaker B: Yes — they keep everything to themselves!

Speaker A: Example sentences?

Speaker B: "A selfish act"; "selfish with money"; "don't be selfish" — actions, money and advice.

Speaker A: Common mistakes?

Speaker B: Don't confuse selfish with selfless, because selfish means only caring about yourself, while selfless means caring about others.

Speaker A: Close relatives?

Speaker B: 'Self-centred' the perspective cousin, 'greedy' the wanting twin, 'egotistical' the ego alternative. The word keeps its self-serving charm!

Podcast 3 — Prompt engineering

Speaker B: Let's use "selfish" in AI prompts — useful for psychology apps and relationship tools.

Speaker A: So a prompt could frame psychology?

Speaker B: Right. For a psychology app, you'd write:

Prompt: Write a short guide to overcoming selfish behaviour, naming two steps.

Speaker A: How about a relationship tool?

Speaker B: Ask the model to advise:

Prompt: Draft a guide to dealing with a selfish partner, naming two strategies.

Speaker A: Could it help with an ethics bot?

Speaker B: Yes, you can frame morality:

Prompt: Summarise in two sentences why selfishness harms relationships, naming one consequence.

Speaker A: One more?

Speaker B: For a parenting chatbot, try this:

Prompt: Write a short tip on teaching children not to be selfish, naming one method.